Throughout my life, I was fortunate to have the support of magnificent male role models. The wisdom from our conversations inspired this column, which explores ‘Apex & Anchor’ of great men. This dynamic stems from a simple truth: the higher a man climbs, the deeper his roots must run to keep him standing.

While the public admires the ‘Apex’—the visible height of a successful life built with grit and vision—it often fails to appreciate the ‘Anchor’ beneath the surface. This root foundation is not shaped by easy victories, but forged in the silence of difficulties overcome, heartbreaks mastered, and deep losses survived. A careful witness acknowledges both the pinnacle of achievement and the silent weight of betrayal, broken trust, and personal trauma hidden from the world.

Moving beyond the wallet of those who stand at the top, ‘Apex & Anchor’ explores the strength it takes not just to lead, but to heal; not just to build an empire, but to rebuild a heart. … And trusting Rumi, it is that heart’s very wound that becomes the portal for light and lasting transformation.